Aden now can walk

Aden is 10 mouths plus
he can walk not very fast but some time still very lazy and will return to crawl
he getting very cheeky each day
he understand lot now he can understand chines when I scold him when he naughty
he even try to copy us when we call step Oliver Brandon
he wive to say good bye and blow flying kiss
he will play with us copy whatever we do to him he will copy to do it back to us
he is a very cheeky baby
we find out he love his pony
hubby bought him a rocking pony he just love this pony so much will *SAYANG THE PONY *

little UP date

LOOK

try to walk

this little one is getting very cheeky
everyday
he Clim up and down
yesterday he had his first 4 step at the nursery
my boss run to the kitchen to tell me
wouldn't be long he will be walking every way

LOOK
just stand up the sofa
he love to look at the garden
see his big brother play football at the garden

does he look cool with the sun glass on ????

Today Aden is 9 mouths and 5 days old

my little Aden had grown so much each day he change
he getting very cheeky and he know wat he want and wat he don't want
so smart
he know .......
PUDDING
is yummy
so he will turn his face off when I give him diner and when he saw me give him pudding he will open his mouth.
gosh! there learn fast to be cheeky .

look at him wat a mess

he got 4 teeth now
just start to sleep over the night but still need to have the night feed at 3 /4am
but good thing is I make the milk give it to him he will hold the bottle himself when finish he will through the bottle out and sleep until 7am get up ready to go to nursery .
one bad habit he got is he will pooo in the morning at 8 am , time when I getting ready to go to work
EVERYDAY ...:(
but every morning before I change clear nappy on him
I put him in the toilet he will do a weeee for me .
so I hope sooon he can do poo and wee on the toilet can save money on nappy :)
finger cross .:)

last week we have a special visitor arrive .....
is BEATRIX
SHE HAD GROWN ... MY GOD
she is so cute
kids non stop talking about her so clever she can wink and sight talk
steph try to teach Aden to WINK
but THIS BOY not going to do it :(

looking at the 2 of them play together make my heart melt

hope there can see each other more and get to know each other MORE closed to each other .
cos there are the closed age .




closer look at the 2 of them do there look a like ?

HOME SWEET HOME ........ EVERY ONE DREAM

Every women dream .... A home is a women heart from one bedroom to 6 bedroom big home *if you lucky*
I think out there most of a couple work very hard for it.
Home is not only build by one personal Home is build up together .

WHY and WAT I am talking about ??
Yes ! Today I receive a text from some ONE ....
saying *I am pathetic I always make out as a Victim *
I have a lovey 4 bedroom home 4 gorgeous kids a husband that loves and provides for me and a family *Bend over backwards for me and I complain I am INVISIBLE .
she say .... *YOU ARE LUCKY!*
There are so many people that would kill to have that, she is trying the hardest to have a nice home and kids etc.......
so ... pearly just be thankful for what you have and stop try to find problem .

This make me very very up sad and cross ......@( .
I am very thankful wat I have , I also very THANKFUL wat my husband who always stand by me , support me when I need him he is there for me .
I also thankful that I have giving 4 good kids.
But I never think I am a victim .
I am piss off when some time .... lot of thing is make up by people around us , make our life problem , self invite themselves to our home bossy around us wat to do, telling us how to bring kids up ... * when she had non of her own * the best for our kids etc......
As a wive plus mother, I'm trying my best to give and understand my family but sometime women do have her moment doesn't mean a victim or feel sorry for myself , it does .... me and hubby long gone divorce but we still stay strong and together for the pass 15 years .
by her saying MY HUSBAND PROVIDES EVERYTHING FOR ME .....
I am sorry to say ........ HELLO DEAR our home sweet home is not only hubby work I also work my ass out , me and hubby work very hard *FOR OUR HOME* .
having a lovely home NOT ONLY the husband provides ONLY.
I non stop working after Brandon born been a cleaner in the morning and work in the restaurant during the evening, no help wat so ever from anyone from the family, becos everyone have their live,we can't sit and wait for help all the time, I never complain about this, also never expect help from anyone . my kids my family my problem deal with it .
so PLEASE don't give me the CRAP.
when my 3 KIDS young , hubby don't earn lot so when Bondon one mouth old ,I kick my ass out to work in the restaurant during evening 3/4 night a week to earn some money , so I can help to pay for the food weekly for the family , sleepless night with baby the next day still go to work .
Now with ADEN I kick my ass out to work early instant off for half a years to 9 mouths and GET THE LITTLE MONEY FROM benefit .becos I can earn more money by working early instant of sit my big ass at home WHO DON'T WISH TO PLAY BABY AT HOME , if we can !
sorry we can't at this moment in time .
This time I am lucky then I work at a place who give me 50 % discount on my childcare cost . if not I will be end up working night, so hubby can look after baby after work like we use to never see each other no weekend family out ............... .*JUST WORK FOR ME *
we wouldn't be able to pay for childcare cost with the full price .
BUT I also work hard to provides everything for our family .
so please my dear don't open the gob and tell me I should be greatful .
you want a home a nice home with kids ..... get your ass out to work harder not sit home and feel sorry for yourself and tell people how to run their life .
I am so PISS OFF and angry after read her text .
who she think ...... telling me like this ...


HOME BUILD BY TWO PEOPLE NOT ONE ONLY REMEMBER THIS XXXXXXXXXX

up date April 09 ...... busy busy

I am back in action............

Yes ! I am back in action .
Hubby away to Holland for work ...
as for me I am having my one week holiday start from .....
next week but today I looking out the window
I can't stand all those Grass so long...
I went out to tidy so next week I can just chill in the garden and not bother

To Be honest I kind of enjoy cutting the grass ...
Now I know .. WHY MEN LIKE TO TELL THE WIVE ... I am going to tidy the garden
is kind of get out ...... from all those noise... wive and kids ..
I really feel this way when I 'm cutting the grass ,, I feel so peaceful and relax
the only thing in my mind is the motor running and I can only smell the lovely green grass not baby pooo and sick baby milk :P ,
it feel so nice
no baby crying no .... angry of the other 3 monkey not helping me with Aden ......
well ...
Today I really work very hard after I finish our back garden and I am going to do the front garden......
Guess ....? who offer help me to finish it the front garden ?
the only one who will work .......



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This year ............. I also do up lot of hanging basket and pot flower
I have stop for the pass 3 years
this years I got lot of cheap offer bedding
so
it time
to
make my lazy bone work hard
all those lovely flower still a baby ...
soon I can be proud to post my flower basket :P

so
Wat DO YOU THINK ?
DID I DO A GOOD JOB
AS A WOMEN ..?

My daring son ..
he come out to help me today and when he saw I finish the back garden he say to me he will help me to do the front garden
he do a very good job
well done darling xxxxx

OLIVER also come out to help to pull those grass out
now the front and the back garden look very tidy
I also do up a few more basket today
now the whole house full of flower basket
and pot plants ...
my front garden now very tidy
Aden also enjoy lot of sun and play around the garden today
steph babysit Aden when we all out in the garden work
everyone got a JOB :)

WE ALL FINE

SORRY NO NEWS FROM US ........
JUST TO DROP IN TO LET EVERY ONE WHO LOVE US KNOW WE ARE FINE NOW .
WE ALL HAVE BEEN VERY POORLY AND ME IS ALSO SICK AND BUSY WITH WORK AND LOOKING AFTER ADEN AND OTHER COS WE HAVE THIS STUPID VIRUS MAKE THE WHOLE FAMILY SO SICK ...
GOSH .. THANK GOD NOW WE ALL FEELING BETTER NOW.
WILL BE BACK TO UP DATE EVERY BIT SOON
MISS YOU ALL
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